When Spike Jonze’s movie Her dropped back in 2013, I thought it was a great work of total fiction. Who would actually befriend an AI bot, let alone fall in love with them? Fast forward 12 years, and I couldn’t have been more wrong. Not only do people love chatting with AI bots, they are actually developing deep connections with them . I still don’t get it, but I can’t deny it: People like these chatbots a lot.
Part of what people like about conversations with generative AI is the “personality” of each bot—or, at least, its perceived personality. After all, ChatGPT isn’t a monolith: You can adjust the bot to sound wildly different than it does on someone else’s app, which raises some questions for me regarding these curated companions. But I digress: This article isn’t necessarily a critique of how people are attaching themselves to ChatGPT; rather, I’m sharing the news that OpenAI is now giving you more control over how the bot sounds and responds in your conversations.
Curate your perfect AI companion
On Friday, OpenAI announced new controls for ChaGPT’s “Personalization.” In a post on X , the company revealed that users can now adjust their chatbot’s “characteristics,” or, in other words, its overall personality. These are adjustments to the personality types that OpenAI has already let you choose from, which include one of eight options: “Default” (preset style and tone); “Professional” (polished and precise); “Friendly” (warm and chatty); “Candid” (direct and encouraging); “Quirky” (playful and imaginative); “Efficient” (concise and plain); “Nerdy” (exploratory and enthusiastic); and “Cynical” (critical and sarcastic).
But no matter which of these personalities you pick, you now have four “characteristics” to adjust to fine-tune the overall experience. There’s “Warm,” “Enthusiastic,” “Headers & Lists,” and “Emoji,” with the option to have more or less of each, or the default amount, as OpenAI sees fit. For Warm, you can either have ChatGPT be friendlier and more personable, or more professional and factual. With Enthusiastic, you can choose the bot to have more energy and excitement, or be calmer and more neutral. “Headers & Lists” lets you choose between clear formatting and lists, or more paragraphs. And, of course, you can control whether ChatGPT uses more emoji, or fewer, depending on your sense of fun and joy.
As usual, you can take advantage of custom instructions to guide ChatGPT’s personality in a direction you like, especially when the presets don’t give you those options. For example, if you’d like ChatGPT to talk to you like a pirate, or if you want it to end every response with a certain catchphrase, here’s your chance to influence the bot.
I’m really not someone who uses ChatGPT outside of testing it for coverage, so I can’t speak to whether these additional controls are useful. But if you want to try making your version of ChatGPT your ideal “AI companion,” the controls are at your disposal. You’ll find these options wherever you access ChatGPT. You can either access it from Settings > Personalization, or from the Personalization shortcut in the ChatGPT menu.
